I told DH once bubs arrives we really need to write up a will. Then I asked if he had had shy thought as to who we would put as guardian if something were to happen. He thinks it should be my sister which I'm ok with but having 3 kids of her own how could I put that strain on her and her family? All our brothers and sisters have large families and so do all our friends. I'm actually not comfortable putting a friend anyway when we have family.
How did you choose?